Being a Christian myself and experiencing marital difficulty, I know it can be tough to find the right guidance on resolving your relationship conflicts.
However, finally after searching high and low I was able to stumble upon a guide which addresses Christian marital issues being entitled Save Your Christian Marriage.
It re-enforces the statement that divorce is not an acceptable solution for couples with problems.
Instead Save Your Christian Marriage teaches you to direct all of your energy toward the positive goal of building a relationship that will honor god.
It suggests determination, work and personal change be required for you as well as your spouse to accomplish this.
To differentiate this book from all the other marriage self help books out there, the author has cut through the traditional approaches to marriage counseling and reveals a more effective strategy based on bible principles.
Save Your Christian Marriage provides a specific outline for you and your spouse based on commitment and mutual goals. The 'north star' describes starting with a common direction for your lives together.
Although Save Your Christian Marriage is not heavily filled with bible verse, there are narrative rings of Christian principles for your marriage. Instead of focusing on communication skills like most marriage counseling does, you will find this guide concentrates on mis-perceptions as it is said that that is where root problems start.
Save Your Christian Marriage begins with addressing the 'me', 'you' mis-perception because Christian Marriages should be a 'we' relationship as described in biblical terms.
When a commitment by you and your spouse is made to build the very best marriage possible then many of the things that were once considered priorities will fall to the wayside.
As a true shift from the 'me' to 'you' takes place you can use personal strengths and attributes to compliment each other. There are approaches to restore calm should you and your spouse be constantly arguing with each other.
Save Your Christian Marriage shows you exactly how to make decisions based on what is best for your relationship and not one of personal preference leading to arguing or power struggles.
You will also learn the role a church plays in providing support, guidance and education so married couples can stay that way.
So if you would like to reestablish your Christian Marriage with your spouse while avoiding the costly fees marriage counselors can charge but don't want to settle for less than the best, I suggest you get Save Your Christian Marriage. You definitely won't regret it.