Marriage Counselling For Older Couples

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You might have come to terms with the fact that you and your soon to be husband or wife have nothing in common and to avoid any problems that the two of you have in the future, the one thing that you can agree on is getting marriage counselling. This way it saves you both headaches for any future problems and you'll be able to get all of your issues resolved.

It shouldn't be an embarrassment to want to get help, but it does mean that the both of you care about saving your relationship as you enter your married life. Some people that they already act as if they're married fighting about the usual stuff such as money, how many kids you want, how to raise your kids. Those kinds of things don't even need to be resolved until at a later date. Right now you should be getting to know each other better. Who knows you could have only known each other for a few months and decide to rush into marriage.

Getting to know your partner is the key to any good relationship. It would be horrible if you had to call the wedding off due to lack of communication and reasoning. The reason why you're seeing a counselor in the first place is because of that exact same reason. Fighting about things that are going to be happening after marriage is a waste of good energy to be fighting about those things now.

You could be wondering how your relationship had taken a turn for the worse that ended you two in counselling sessions. You guys used to be such great friends when you were dating but then as marriage got closer and closer you start fighting about things you never thought you would ever fight about. It's normal because the two of you are just realizing that your dream is becoming a reality and there are things that have to get done as the big day draws near.

There is no age limit when it comes to getting counseling but for some reason the younger couples are the ones that have the most issues. The most important issue that young couples face are the fact that they're scared. They feel like they're rushing into it when they have their whole lives to spend with each other. Maybe they are, but it's not a bad thing. It just means that you didn't date long enough to get to know each other before you decided to get married.

An issue that lands most young couples in marriage counseling is they are not communicating to the point where they can lead a happy, married life. This is a good reason why it's a good idea to see a marriage counselor before you're married so that way you can fix your communication problems before they escalate into something worse like being divorced a few months after your married.

Even if you guys are the happiest couple that anyone has ever seen walking into a counselling session, you still find out more about each other and agree to do the counselling session because of that one particular reason.

Being involved with marriage counselling for young couples allows you the chance to find out more about the other person without arguing because you get to work on your communication skills. Even if you're not facing any communication issues, you may have found out that their are other problems you need to work on in your counselling session.
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This article was published on 2010/11/19