How to Stop Divorce Now - Stop Divorce in Its Tracks

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You're marriage is seeing some tough times, everyone goes through a phase like this in their marriage. Let me emphasize however that most of the time divorce is not the answer and one or both sides of the marriage simply gives up and takes the easy way out. If you are reading this then you are taking a step in the right direction. Continue to research how to stop divorce now and continue to try to make your marriage work. I'll give you some tips that will help your marriage and the closeness you feel with your partner. Hopefully with these tips you will be well on your way to repairing the damage to your marriage.

1 - To begin with you need to sit down with your partner and isolate the major problems. This will require communication, and lots of it. If you do anything to stop your divorce now make sure that it is communication. Set aside some time everyday to not only discuss your issues but also discuss your lives in general, how your day went or even starting with something as simple as saying what you had for dinner or what you did at work. Often times couples who are married for a long time don't take the time to talk to each other like they used to, many problems in a relationship can be linked to a lack of communication.

2 - Remember that if you are going to stop divorce now you will need reignite that lost flame that you had at the beginning of your relationship or just stoke the fire that is already there. Make some time to show your partner that you appreciate and love them. This can be a simple gesture like a note in the morning, or having dinner ready when they come home from work. If your partner knows that you appreciate them then they will in turn appreciate you and show it in similar ways. Consider the occasional "just because" gift or a bouquet of flowers. Don't confuse appreciation with sex, I'm not saying don't have sex, just don't use it as your "just because" gift.

3 - Try to take your partner on some emotionally charged dates. You see all these movies where people fall in love in a matter of days during a horror movie or an action movie, you may think that this is all just movies but there is actually a syndrome associated with it. When emotions are heightened such as fear or excitement people create stronger and more lasting bonds. Consider an amusement park or an exciting adventure like white water rafting.

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These are by no means the only thing you should do to stop your divorce now but they are a few things that you can do now that will improve your relationship and in the long run stop the discussion of divorce in its tracks. Check out for a step by step guide that will show you exactly how you too can stop divorce now.

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This article was published on 2010/04/02
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