Once you reach the point where you're looking around for help to save your marriage then you're no doubt very worried and very confused about what you can realistically do to save the marriage. Perhaps you've tried a succession of different methods and none of them have worked very well. Then if that's the case I'm going to suggest to you that you take a good look at using one of many marriage repair guides and books that are proving to be successful for many couples.
Why a Marriage Repair Guide Might Help You Save Your Marriage
The truth is that in many cases when a marriage hits the rocks, there is usually one spouse ready to walk away and end the marriage and another who desperately wants to work at saving the marriage. The fact that you're here reading this article, I'm going to assume you're the spouse who wants to save the marriage!
Traditional marriage counseling has been the chosen method that many have used to try and save their marriages. Well the reluctant spouse is the basic reason why so many couples who opt for this method of expert help, will fail.
It is widely reported that many couples go for counseling and then come out with even more problems than they went in with. The reluctant spouse is basically dragged to counseling by their eager spouse. The reluctant spouse them proceeds to sabotage the counseling sessions and the counseling fails.
With a marriage repair book or guide, it doesn't matter if your spouse is on board with saving the marriage or not. These guides take into account the fact that you might be trying to save a marriage on your own. On your own, you can get hold of one of these guides and start working through the program.
Once you have understood what you need to do to save your marriage as outlined by the guide, then you can start putting your knowledge into practice. Your spouse will see how serious you are, how effective what you are doing is and your reluctant spouse won't be reluctant any more.
What is also really worth pointing out about these guides is the best ones are written by the same experts and professionals who would've 10 years ago set up practice in an office and saw couples face to face. However, with the growth of the internet, these experts are now offering their expertize online to thousands of people.
Not only that, the cost of face to face traditional counseling can run into the hundreds and even thousands of dollars - not many can afford that! These new marriage repair guides and books come at a fraction of the price.