Today’s marriage came in to different reasons. It may be love, economic security, arranged or forced. Whatever the reason of their marriage, both men and women have had promised in the eye of God and the eyes of people to stick together for better or for worse until death do their part. However, there are couples who never value their vows to each other. Especially, if encounter marital trials, difficulties or problems, they just simply and easily give up, broke up and end up to divorce.
Divorce is the final and legal termination of a marital union. Invalidating the legal responsibilities of marriage and alters the bonds of matrimony between parties.
First thing and foremost before deciding to tie the knot be ready to take the risk and challenges of marriage life, be firm and stand with your vows.
In doing so, you are not saving your married life merely, saving the lives of your children. For the reason that getting divorce is the most difficult decision and heart-breaking situation not only felt by parents but mostly in their children. A study reveals that divorce cause a big impact on children, because they do not know how to cope and manage the transition.
These are tips and ways how to manage your marriage stop divorce as well:
Try to know and understand each other’s need.
Examine yourselves what are the things you would like to do, how to make it happened. What your spouse wanted to do and how he or she will make it happened.
Try to be vigilant and be sensitive of your partner’s needs.
Respect each other’s decisions, suggestions and point of view. If it is not agreeable then, tell him or her honestly with full of respect and love.
For husband keep your priorities straight.
As a foundation of your own family, make sure that you know your priorities. Provide the basic needs of you family, in terms of money and love. Your home is most important than your business, associates, and friends. Do not take your family for granted.
It is normal for men to be attracted to other women, but before committing sin think your children first. If you “did this” and if you “did that” what will happened next.
Do not be too selfish to seek your own happiness, ‘cause in marriage it is a packaged. You and your family are one.
For wives make your house a home
Just simply do not nag --- do not complain for everything instead helps your husband to achieve everything.
Stick on your budget – be a wise spender. Buy only what you need if your money is enough for your family needs.
Be attractive to your husband as always – take care of yourself, stay beautiful. If you remain attractive, your husband has an urge to go home and excited to see you after work. Your motives should never hook your husband, but because you love him, you want to keep beautiful for him.
Never forget the sweetness in you, don’t forget to tell your husband sweet words like “I Love You”, “missing you terribly”