7 Effective Tips to Help Save Marriage from Divorce

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Statistically speaking, nearly sixty percent of marriages fall short. Many couples are looking into ways to avoid becoming that statistic. Although some marriages cannot be fixed, many can.  It takes dedication and determination on the part of both the husband and the wife to help save marriage from divorce, regardless of what the underlying troubles are or who is at fault.

The following are some successful tips to help save marriage from divorce.  However, for these to work, both the husband and wife must be dedicated to following these procedures and work together to solve their differences.

1. Communicate. This is absolutely vital for making a marriage work and last.  You both must clearly state how you feel, your opinions, your desires and requirements to each other.  By discovering what each of you feel is wrong in your marriage, you can work towards a resolution.

2. Be cool. When you are having problems in your marriage it is easy to get upset. Try to approach your problems with a level head and voice. Being unkind or impertinent to your spouse will not help the circumstances.

3. Give and take. It takes two in a marriage, so both of your views must be appreciated. If you give a little, you may get a lot and be happier.

4. Set achievable goals. Goals give you direction. Make sure to set goals in your marriage that mirror both of your views and determine what you both need to do to get there.

5. Be patient. It takes time to work on problems in a marriage. Make sure that you are tolerant with your spouse as well as with yourself as you work towards fixing problems. Hurrying to fix things can have an undesirable effect.

6. Kiss and make up. Depending on your situation, this can be difficult, especially if your partner was unfaithful. If you want to save your marriage in spite of their infidelity, you will have to try and forgive them so that you can work together to safeguard your marriage. Forgetting about what they have done may not be trouble-free either. If you want to move on, it is essential that you are not dwelling on the past. Focus on the here and now and what you can both do today to make your marriage better.

7. Get some therapy. If you cannot work out your differences, counselling can help.  A good counsellor can help you with direction, support, encouragement and give you impartial views that can give you insight on how to correct the problems in your marriage. They can help you find the right solutions and methods based on what is best for you as a couple for the problems that are being faced.

It is very important that you both agree to counselling and intend to take an active role in your sessions for counselling to be an effective tool for help in your marriage. When choosing a therapist, make sure that they are licensed professionals and that you feel comfortable working with them. All you need is determination and a great strategy to save marriage from divorce. Good luck!

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This article was published on 2010/10/25
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